My Answer is No.

Guess what?... Dominic's parents read my blog...

And, Dominic's dad wants me to remove Dominic's picture from my blog...

Just like how he made Dominic erase his blog.

Just like how he made Dominic erase his pictures.


I guess, my answer this time is no.


Apart from the fact that my blog is my personal space, it is a manifesto of my feelings, emotions, thoughts and most of all... life.

Erasing his picture holds true to erasing him from my life...

As much as you want me to erase him from my life, and as much as you want him to erase me from my life. I will not.

What did I even do wrong?...
What did he even do wrong?

I can find no other logical explanation for your recent course of actions that you impose on Dominic apart from the fact that you're trying to deny the world the truth that your son is gay.

Are you embarressed? or even ashamed?

I'm not an alcoholic,
I'm not a drug-addict,
I'm not a gangster,
I'm not mentally deficient.

I am a person with defined moralisitic values.

Are you scared I'll influence him negatively?

I doubt there could be anyone who could influence him more positively.



You know what I'm really scared of?

I'm scared of you.

In your course of actions, you're destroy his memories and ruining friendships.

yes, merely by deleting the blog, you've successfully erased 2 years of referential memories...

what glory is there in that?

Its like planting a bomb in the national museum...

If you even click on his old blog address, the Blogger webmaster actually randomized it to external links, turning it into a pornographic site.

ironically, a pornographic site with pictures of females.


What do you gain?


By nature, I'm a pragmatic person. Complementing the completely irrational nature of Dominic. That is the reason why he followed blindly without realizing the repercussions.

He's 18 years old...

Isn't it time that you let him decide what is best for him?

Isn't it about time that you let another person care for him in a different way then you can?

If you can still remember what it is like when you first met your wife, you'd agree with me that your parents do not control your decision...

Likewise, Dominic loves me.

And by a far greater extent, I love Dominic.


Just remember that by doing all these, you'll only cause Dominic to hold on tighter to me...

but its sad... when i keep telling him that his parents are very important in maintaining the relationship...




how much more do you want?

I won't delete my blog, apart from the reason that he is part of my life now.

That my blog is one of the top 100 in Singapore,
That my blog has clocked 40,000 visitors.

most of all, my blog is my memories.

nope. I wont alter my memories.




I know that once you have read this, we will most likely be enemies for a long time. You would hate me even more, knowing that I have some control over your son's life.

Just know one thing. That you can't be by his side forever, and when that time comes, I WILL be the one to prove to you who can.



sorry.